Beyondhood
Childhood, adolescence, adulthood, elderhood… where and how do we go beyond elderhood?
Each episode celebrates a heartwarming and real-life story from a silent generation or a baby boomer. One that will make you appreciate older adults’ wisdom and life experience and make you think and discover how to live life fully and age with grace and meaning.
Go beyond elderhood - One chat at a time.
Beyondhood
Ep 6 - Liz Bolton - Value your self-worth, learn to say NO!
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Episode 6: We have the free spirit and funny Liz Bolton. She is energetic, passionate and a firecracker! We had one of the most amazing times recording her life story at her unique and beautiful home in London.
Liz has the most unique upbringing: She was the first British born in Al-Fashir, Sudan and spent time in the Gold Coast (Ghana) as a child. Her parents have one of the most dramatic love stories of the 1930s you will ever hear and they are the original Airbnb creator!
We dived into her career, and she worked very hard to become top of her Public Relations profession. Have you heard of Pick of the Fringe and the first-ever Levi music sponsorship with David Bowie in the 80s? Come find out how Liz was part of the creation team. We talked deeply about the significant relationships in her life and how she reminded us that self-worth and respect are two key virtues.
Into her elderhood, Liz is so active! Yoga, gardening, Airbnb host, who said retirement is dull? Come to find out how you can retire from your professions but never retire from life.
Dear Liz,
You are so funny and such a gem to record with! Thank you for being so open, honest and real in your recording. I am so grateful our paths crossed and hope your children will enjoy this life gift from you and to the next generations.
Love, Nicole
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Beyondhood - NicoleWelcome to Beyondhood, where we go beyond elderhood, one chat at a time.
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Beyondhood - NicoleAnnouncement!
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Beyondhood - NicoleBefore we start, do you have one or all three of the following issues?
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Beyondhood - NicoleFirst, do you want to know more and deeper into your loved one's childhood?
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Beyondhood - NicoleSecond, do you feel it is hard for you to talk to your loved one, to understand them more deeply?
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Beyondhood - NicoleThey're often not as open with you because you're family or good friends.
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Beyondhood - NicoleOr you find it hard to ask them questions because you're close to them.
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Beyondhood - NicoleThird, have you thought of one day when they're gone?
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Beyondhood - NicoleYou can never ask them about their lives anymore?
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Beyondhood - NicoleIf any of the above comes to mind, our Record Life Story service is your solution.
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Beyondhood - NicoleContact me, my contact info is in the show notes.
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Beyondhood - NicoleIn today's episode, I have the pleasure of recording Liz's life story for her.
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Beyondhood - NicoleI met Liz through episode one client, Donald.
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Beyondhood - NicoleLiz is an honest, funny and fiery woman.
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Beyondhood - NicoleShe's such a free spirit.
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Beyondhood - NicoleI couldn't stop giggling throughout the recording and she has hand down the most unique upbringing you will hear.
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Beyondhood - NicoleI'm so excited to share this episode with you.
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Beyondhood - NicoleWelcome to the Beyondhood podcast.
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Beyondhood - NicoleFirst, Liz, welcome.
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Beyondhood - NicoleCan you share with us your full name, how old are you and where do you live?
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Liz B:My name is Elizabeth Bolton.
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Liz B:I'm known as Liz or Lizzie, depending who I'm talking to.
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Liz B:I was born in 1948, so I'm 75.
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Liz B:And I live in Northwest London, Kensal Green.
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Beyondhood - NicoleNice, we will start off with your childhood.
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Beyondhood - NicoleWhere were you born and where did you grow up?
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Liz B:Well, I was born in Al-Fasha in Darfur, which is part of Sudan.
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Liz B:Sudan was all one country then in those days, but nowadays it's South Sudan and Sudan.
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Liz B:And I understand it's been totally devastated during the war.
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Liz B:So we spent first few years of my life there.
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Beyondhood - NicoleI researched on the brief history of Sudan on britannica.com, the same company that owned Merriam-Webster because I want to make sure my facts are correct for you.
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Beyondhood - NicoleSudan was called Angelo Egyptian Sudan from 1922 to 1956.
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Beyondhood - NicoleIt gained independence from the United Kingdom and Egypt in 1956.
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Beyondhood - NicoleAfter gaining independence, there was a costly and divisive civil war between the North and the South.
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Beyondhood - NicoleFinally, in 2005, there was a comprehensive peace agreement and the warfare.
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Beyondhood - NicoleIt also granted South Sudan a status and stipulated a referendum on independence from the South.
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Beyondhood - NicoleThe result of the vote, which held it in January 2011, were overwhelmingly in favor of independence.
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Beyondhood - NicoleAnd South Sudan was then declared an independent country in 2011.
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Beyondhood - NicoleAnd hence, Liz was saying that now it's two country.
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Beyondhood - NicoleWhere did you move after?
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Liz B:I've gone through my birth book and to get the dates and everything correct.
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Liz B:I think we came back to England and then went to Biarritz for six months while my father searched for another job.
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Liz B:And it was just my mother and we three girls who were in Biarritz.
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Liz B:And then we moved to Ghana where my younger sister was born.
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Liz B:And that was then called the Gold Coast, that was now called Ghana.
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Beyondhood - NicoleAccording to the Embassy of Ghana, Ghana used to be called the Gold Coast.
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Beyondhood - NicoleIt was a name given it by early Portuguese explorer who first set foot on the shore of the country in the 15th century.
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Beyondhood - NicoleThe name Gold Coast is because there was a large resources of gold in the area.
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Beyondhood - NicoleDuring different period from the time the Portuguese discovered gold in 1471, to independence in 1957, there were different monarchy of European kingdom, but the British came in dominance.
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Beyondhood - NicoleHence, the Gold Coast was a British colony until it gained independence on March 6th, 1957.
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Beyondhood - NicoleThen the name has changed to Ghana.
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Beyondhood - NicoleWow, so how did you end up being born and grew up in Darfur and Sudan?
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Liz B:My father was with the Public Works Department, building the roads and water works there.
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Liz B:And then he started his own consultancy later in life.
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Liz B:But at that time, he had been with the Public Works Department in Singapore and before the war, somehow ended up in Sudan.
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Beyondhood - NicoleWhat was it like growing up in Sudan and Ghana as a child?
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Liz B:I think all memories of childhood are influenced by the photographs and by the images that you've been shown.
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Liz B:We actually even had black and white films that my father took of us during those days.
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Liz B:So I'm not quite sure what's memory and what's imposed on my memory by the films and the photographs.
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Liz B:But I do remember being part of a three-girl gang and climbing out of a four-girl clan by then because I had two older sisters and climbing out of windows and across the flat roofs.
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Liz B:And I remember too that I had malaria, which my parents thought was yellow fever.
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Liz B:And that took about three weeks.
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Liz B:And I do remember getting out of bed and my legs buckling underneath me because I hadn't walked for so long.
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Beyondhood - NicoleOh wow.
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Beyondhood - NicoleWhat was treatment like there?
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Beyondhood - NicoleWas it in Sudan or in Ghana when you had malaria?
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Liz B:I think it must have been in Ghana because I was walking then.
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Liz B:And I don't know about treatment.
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Liz B:I can only tell from my birth book where my mother wrote that she was frightened and I was terribly ill.
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Liz B:And I presume, however, they treated malaria.
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Liz B:It was quite common.
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Liz B:I've known how to treat it.
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Beyondhood - NicoleSo you had a birth book.
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Liz B:Yes, my mother made us each a birth book.
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Liz B:And that's where the information that you wanted is in somewhere where this book is.
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Beyondhood - NicoleWhat did she make?
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Beyondhood - NicoleHow old until you got?
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Liz B:Yes, she put in photographs of us as newborn babies and then of us as children together.
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Liz B:But she wrote pages and pages about being called to the hospital and what the hospital was like because I was the first British baby born there.
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Liz B:So it must have been, she was supposed to catch a plane and go to Aden, I think, to have me, but she refused to go.
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Liz B:And that's why I ended up being the first British baby in Duffel, oh, in Elfasha.
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Beyondhood - NicoleThat is so cool.
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Beyondhood - NicoleHow many people can say that they're the first British to be born in a foreign country?
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Beyondhood - NicoleGive her a round of applause.
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Beyondhood - NicoleYou were already a very international traveler as a kid in the 50s already.
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Beyondhood - NicoleAnd you briefly mentioned what your parents do.
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Beyondhood - NicoleHow many siblings do you have?
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Liz B:I have an older half-sister.
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Liz B:Her father died before he was a pilot in the Second World War, and he was killed before she was born.
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Liz B:My mother was pregnant then with her.
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Liz B:And she married my father very soon afterwards.
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Liz B:So she's my half-sister, but we always considered her a full sister because she never knew her father and she only knew my parents.
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Liz B:And then I have my sister who's closest to me.
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Liz B:He's 11 months older than me, who was born in Juba.
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Liz B:And then Katie, who is three years younger than me, and she was born in Ghana.
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Liz B:And then I've got a younger brother, or we all have a younger brother, so there are five of us.
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Beyondhood - NicoleOh, wow.
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Beyondhood - NicoleYour dad was trained as a sofa engineer, and then he worked as a sofa servant in Davao.
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Beyondhood - NicoleWhat happened when you guys moved to Virginia, and then moved back to England?
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Liz B:When we left Africa, we moved to the United States, where three of us went to, the three older children went to school for a year or so.
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Liz B:And that was during the McCarthy era.
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Beyondhood - NicoleMcCarthy era was a name given to the period of time in American history that saw US Senator Joseph McCarthy of Wisconsin produce a series of investigations and hearings during the 1950s in an effort to expose supposed communist infiltration of various areas of the US government.
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Liz B:So my parents were very unhappy about the politics that was when they were expelling anybody who had any communist association and or stopping them working.
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Liz B:And although my parents weren't communists, they had been as youngsters, but they were very disturbed by the politics in America.
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Liz B:So we left quite soon after we'd been there, maybe 18 months.
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Liz B:And by then my father was working for the World Bank.
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Liz B:We moved back to England when I think I was seven.
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Liz B:My father then started his own consultancy and moved to Addis Ababa, in Ethiopia, where my younger brother was conceived.
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Liz B:My mother would join my father for maybe six months of the year.
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Liz B:He would be away for nine to 11 months every year.
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Liz B:And she would join him for six to eight months and leave the three eldest children behind at home in Bray, which is in Berkshire, where we had a house.
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Liz B:And we would invite or they would invite families with their own children to move into our home to look after us rather than sending us to boarding school.
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Liz B:So they kept all three of us together.
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Liz B:And then we had numerous families, I think seven in total, different families came and moved in with us.
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Liz B:The first family had two children who we still know, the Clifton Mocks, and they were contemporaries of ours.
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Liz B:And then the next family was a widow with three children, two girls and a boy.
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Liz B:So there were always a gang of us that were always, at least three of us, and usually around five or six of us.
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Beyondhood - NicoleWow, so you had the original Airbnb, is that people move into your home and live with you, and also kind of take care of you guys at the same time.
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Beyondhood - NicoleHow do you feel about that?
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Liz B:I was very excited about it because I was quite an independent child.
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Liz B:I loved all these different people, and I was quite an extrovert child.
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Liz B:My sister is a bit older than me, was very nervous child and was quite introverted.
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Liz B:I think my elder sister found it the most difficult, but no, I enjoyed it.
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Liz B:I thought it was great fun.
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Beyondhood - NicoleYeah, what was your favorite memory at the house?
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Liz B:A couple of things.
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Liz B:One, we would all sleep in one huge bedroom.
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Liz B:So sometimes there would be five of us, or sometimes there'd be six of us, all sleeping in almost a dormitory.
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Liz B:And we would put up washing lines across the room to divide the room into sections like a hospital and put sheets over the washing lines so that we had our own little private spaces.
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Liz B:And my sister, who is older than me, was such a nervous little girl that she used to come into my little cubicle and climb into bed with me because she didn't like being in her own private section.
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Liz B:Oh.
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Liz B:Yeah, and it was great fun.
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Liz B:Being part of a gang of children.
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Liz B:I mean, we were quite well-known in the neighborhood because we had American accents and it was quite unusual for people to have Americans basically.
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Liz B:And we had a huge American station wagon, a Pontiac, that they brought over on the ship with them.
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Liz B:So we were, we always stood out as a family.
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Liz B:And also because our parents weren't there.
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Liz B:Which seemed even more unusual to sort of English people who were middle-class and had been brought up very sensibly.
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Liz B:It seemed quite, I suppose, outrageous to them.
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Beyondhood - NicoleYeah, even let's say if you put it in nowadays, having children at the home, not with the parent, it's still not very common.
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Beyondhood - NicoleThinking back into the 50s, I want to understand more about your parents.
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Beyondhood - NicoleYour parents were already very globalized in the 40s, 50s and 60s already.
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Beyondhood - NicoleWhat was their story?
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Beyondhood - NicoleHow did they meet?
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Liz B:That's a very long and involved story.
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Liz B:They met before the war, and then my father left England and moved to Singapore with the Public Works Department as a civil engineer.
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Liz B:And my mother had remained, she was in Scotland and in London.
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Liz B:And while he was away, they communicated, they wrote to each other every week, practically.
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Liz B:I have all of their letters.
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Liz B:They're fantastic.
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Liz B:Because they're so beautifully written, and they're long.
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Liz B:They're like five or six pages long.
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Liz B:And my father was having a wonderful time in Singapore.
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Liz B:And my mother, the war started very soon in Europe, started very soon after he left.
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Liz B:Because he left at the beginning of 1939.
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Beyondhood - NicoleSide note, when we say war, we mean the Second World War.
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Liz B:So my mother joined the women's army, which she loved because of the uniform.
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Liz B:And she was very, very pretty, very beautiful.
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Beyondhood - NicoleIf you want to see a picture of Liz's mom, she was very beautiful.
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Beyondhood - NicoleIt is on our website, www.beyondhood.com.
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Liz B:And they kept on writing to each other.
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Liz B:And then she met somebody else and she married him.
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Liz B:He was an RAF pilot.
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Beyondhood - NicoleSide note, RAF stand for Royal Air Force.
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Liz B:Very good looking Welshman.
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Liz B:And she fell madly in love with him.
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Liz B:He was a year younger than her.
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Liz B:Very sadly, while she was pregnant in 1945, three weeks before the end of the war, he was shot down and killed.
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Liz B:My father returned the following year from Singapore en route to America where he had a fiance.
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Liz B:And six days after he returned to England, he and my mother got married.
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Beyondhood - NicoleAnd I recall you mentioned you're organizing their letters to make a book.
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Liz B:Yes, I've written a book based on their letters and based on my mother's diaries and the letters that her first husband wrote to her from, because he was based in Eindhoven in Holland with the Air Force.
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Liz B:And I have all of his letters and his logbook and the RAF logbooks.
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Liz B:So yes, it makes a fascinating story.
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Beyondhood - NicoleWhat do you feel of your parents when they were not here with you and with your brother in Ethiopia?
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Beyondhood - NicoleHow do you feel about that?
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Liz B:I think I never really forgave my mother for leaving us.
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Liz B:I became very independent of her.
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Liz B:And I think I always resented it through my adulthood really.
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Liz B:And I felt she didn't have the right to tell me how to behave or what to do, because she'd lost that right when she had left us behind.
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Liz B:I wasn't unhappy, but I definitely missed her.
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Liz B:Well, I absolutely adored my father and he was forgiven totally for having been abroad.
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Liz B:I think we all, again, we thought it was quite natural for him to be away, but I don't think we did miss my mother very much.
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Beyondhood - NicoleInteresting you said that.
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Beyondhood - NicoleI think it's always, that's why people say daughters are mostly daddy's girl and it's easier to forgive the dad somehow.
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Liz B:Yes, I agree with you.
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Beyondhood - NicoleWell, we had quite a good understanding, an interesting story from your childhood.
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Beyondhood - NicoleWe're moving into adolescence.
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Beyondhood - NicoleI remember you mentioned you lived in the house until you were 16 and then you left home around 17.
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Beyondhood - NicoleWhat was the house to you as a adolescent?
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Beyondhood - NicoleAnd did you enjoy school?
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Liz B:Oh, I hated school, absolutely hated school and very rebellious and I didn't enjoy school at all.
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Liz B:And the way that we were at a convent after having spent a year at a very small local school where I couldn't read or write.
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Liz B:And when we moved to the convent, I was put in a class below my year.
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Liz B:And then as a teenager, when I rebelled by holding a strike during our sewing class, the nuns put me down a class.
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Liz B:So they educationally deprived me rather than expel me because my parents were abroad and they felt they couldn't expel me.
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Liz B:So they put me down a class and then they humiliated me by when they called out your position in the class where you had to walk in front of the whole school.
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Liz B:And if you were number one, you walked it up and you were number one in the class.
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Liz B:But they put me up a class for the position.
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Liz B:So I came last.
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Liz B:So I had to walk up in front of the whole school and show that I was last, even though I hadn't taken half of the exams that the year above had taken.
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Liz B:Humiliating.
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Liz B:They made me very angry indeed.
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Liz B:So I couldn't wait to leave school.
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Beyondhood - NicoleSince you had a striped sewing class, do you know how to sew right now?
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Liz B:I'm a very good sewer.
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Liz B:Yes.
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Liz B:I used, even as children, we used to sew our clothes, our own clothes.
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Liz B:I actually think my mother made us sew some of our school uniform.
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Liz B:But I used to sew the dresses that if I was going out on a Saturday night to a party, I would stitch together a dress and wear that.
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Beyondhood - NicoleOh, wow.
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Beyondhood - NicoleThen how come you don't like sewing class?
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Liz B:It was so boring.
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Liz B:We had to measure everything perfectly and do everything slowly.
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Liz B:And it was just boring because I could do it.
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Beyondhood - NicoleOh, I see.
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Beyondhood - NicoleWell, the lesson is that you don't really have to learn everything in school.
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Liz B:Exactly.
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Beyondhood - NicoleWhen you were a teenager, what was your favorite movie?
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Liz B:Oh, we loved, even as children, but particularly as teenagers, Ginger Rogers and Fred Astaire, all of their musicals, they're so romantic and so beautiful.
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Liz B:And we just loved them.
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Beyondhood - NicoleFred Astaire and Ginger Rogers, they were dance partner, and they feature in a total of 10 movie.
00:21:05.340 --> 00:21:12.000
Beyondhood - NicoleFred Astaire is regarded by many as the greatest popular music dancer of all time.
00:21:12.820 --> 00:21:16.620
Beyondhood - NicoleAnd he's usually remembered for his pairing with Ginger Roger.
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Beyondhood - NicoleWho was in several movie with him, including Swing Time in 1936.
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Beyondhood - NicoleOh, when did you first see it?
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Beyondhood - NicoleWas it in the theater or how did it work when you were a kid?
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Liz B:On TV.
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Beyondhood - NicoleAnd do you still love it?
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Beyondhood - NicoleDo you still watch it?
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Liz B:Yes, occasionally I will watch it.
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Liz B:I love seeing clips of them on YouTube.
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Liz B:I'll still play clips from time to time.
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Liz B:All my sisters will send me clips.
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Liz B:To say, do you remember this?
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Beyondhood - NicoleAnd what was the most important historical event that you remember when you were a teenager?
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Liz B:I do remember the assassination of President Kennedy.
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Liz B:And I think anybody of my age remembers that day and remembers when it happened.
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Liz B:It was so shocking.
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Liz B:He was such a poster boy for America and all things American.
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Liz B:And then to find he'd been shot and killed and it was a newsflash on TV.
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Liz B:And we were, us girls were watching TV.
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Liz B:It must have been in the afternoon.
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Liz B:So I don't know why we were watching in the afternoon.
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Liz B:But I remember running into the kitchen and telling my mother to say, mommy, mommy, President Kennedy's been shot.
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Liz B:Yeah, no, it was very shocking.
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Beyondhood - NicoleHe was shot in 1963.
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Beyondhood - NicoleSo you're around 15 that year.
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Liz B:So I left school at 15, 16.
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Liz B:I think I was just 16 and went to Reading Technical College to take my A levels.
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Liz B:And I took those in a year.
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Liz B:Hardly ever went there.
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Liz B:I fell in love with some engineers who worked there.
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Liz B:And I got English A level in just the one year.
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Liz B:And as soon as I finished there, my parents sent me on a secretarial course, which I did for three months.
00:23:05.500 --> 00:23:09.380
Liz B:I did a high speed secretarial course, a pitman's course.
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Liz B:Got a job straight away and moved to London.
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Liz B:So when I was 17.
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Beyondhood - NicoleOnce you moved to London, what did you first came to London to do?
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Beyondhood - NicoleAnd what was your career?
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Beyondhood - NicoleCan you share with us?
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Liz B:Yes, one of my sister's friends, her boyfriend said to me, you would be good in public relations.
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Liz B:And he worked in advertising.
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Liz B:And I was very in awe of him.
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Liz B:And I had no idea what public relations was.
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Liz B:So I joined a public relations company.
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Liz B:As a secretary, it was the division of an advertising agency.
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Beyondhood - NicoleSo what was public relations mean back then?
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Liz B:It was publicity for clients.
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Liz B:So we worked on Littlewoods chain stores, Littlewoods pools, Phillips Electrical, Antler luggage.
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Liz B:We organized at home evenings for women.
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Liz B:We sent anything that appeared in the newspapers or magazines.
00:24:13.060 --> 00:24:18.160
Liz B:We supplied them with the product to photograph and to write about.
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Liz B:And we generated news for them.
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Beyondhood - NicoleYou were working at your first advertisement agency.
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Beyondhood - NicoleAnd then what happened?
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Beyondhood - NicoleDid you stay there for long or what's next for you?
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Liz B:I was there for six years, but I fell in love with the chairman of the agency, Colin.
00:24:38.380 --> 00:24:39.620
Liz B:And we had an affair.
00:24:39.620 --> 00:24:43.020
Liz B:He was a married man at the time with two adopted children.
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Liz B:He was a playboy, so it wasn't just me.
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Liz B:And he was 16 years older than me.
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Liz B:So he was a grown up and I was still very young.
00:24:52.680 --> 00:24:54.660
Liz B:So I can be forgiven.
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Liz B:And then I got pregnant.
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Liz B:And I decided it was without discussion with him.
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Liz B:I decided I was going to keep the baby.
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Liz B:I didn't even have second thoughts about it.
00:25:08.460 --> 00:25:13.500
Liz B:And so I was asked to leave the agency when it became obvious that I was pregnant.
00:25:13.520 --> 00:25:20.100
Liz B:They felt it was inappropriate for the chairman to have one of the young girls in the agency pregnant by him.
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Liz B:So I left the agency and I joined Courtaulds, which was a huge textile division.
00:25:29.860 --> 00:25:33.000
Beyondhood - NicoleFun fact, I did some Googling on Courtaulds.
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Beyondhood - NicoleCourtaulds was a UK-based manufacturer of fabric, clothing and chemicals.
00:25:39.480 --> 00:25:47.640
Beyondhood - NicoleIt was established in 1794 and became the world's leading man-made fiber production company.
00:25:48.160 --> 00:25:58.720
Beyondhood - NicoleBefore, it was broken up into two companies, Courtaulds focusing on the chemical and Courtauld Textile focusing on the clothing in 1990s.
00:25:59.260 --> 00:26:02.680
Beyondhood - NicoleSince 1990, it went through different acquisition.
00:26:03.160 --> 00:26:12.500
Beyondhood - NicoleAnd now, eventually, it ends up the Courtauld Textile Company was bought by a Hong Kong private company in 2006.
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Liz B:I ran the homeware department, which was Antico floor tiles, Christy tiles, sandal fabrics, any textiles to do with the home, Courtaulds made, and I worked there as a freelance until Katie was born, my daughter.
00:26:29.800 --> 00:26:34.500
Liz B:And then I went back and worked for them for a little while, but not for long.
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Beyondhood - NicoleDid you become a single mom then?
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Liz B:Not immediately.
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Liz B:I lived with Colin for a while, and then I fell in love with somebody else who looked just like Colin but much younger.
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Liz B:So I actually left home with Katie, with my daughter, when she was 15 months, and I moved in with my sister temporarily until Colin left our home together.
00:26:59.760 --> 00:27:09.600
Liz B:And then he left, and yes, I did become a single mom because he didn't forgive me for having left him and really ruined his marriage, I suppose.
00:27:09.860 --> 00:27:12.720
Liz B:His marriage was pretty much on the rocks anyway.
00:27:12.740 --> 00:27:13.700
Liz B:It wasn't just me.
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Liz B:I keep saying that.
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Beyondhood - NicoleI'm sticking with that, yes.
00:27:18.440 --> 00:27:21.680
Beyondhood - NicoleYou went back to Kortel for a little bit.
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Beyondhood - NicoleI know that you started your own company, but how did you start your own company with your daughter around as well?
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Liz B:Yeah, I started PR, a stylist and stylist company.
00:27:33.780 --> 00:27:45.720
Liz B:When I say company, it was myself and another girl, and we had offices, I took offices above Ronnie Scott's in Frith Street, and I did the styling for some little wood catalog.
00:27:45.840 --> 00:27:47.720
Liz B:I had a golfing company.
00:27:48.260 --> 00:27:50.400
Liz B:I think I had three or four clients.
00:27:50.420 --> 00:27:52.260
Liz B:I wasn't very devoted to it.
00:27:52.820 --> 00:27:58.440
Liz B:I decided when Katie was three, I think, that I really needed a break.
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Liz B:I'd gone back to work too soon after she'd been born, and I'd been on holiday to a place called Lindos in Greece.
00:28:08.060 --> 00:28:09.720
Liz B:And I thought, well, I'm going to move there.
00:28:09.780 --> 00:28:10.420
Liz B:I like that.
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Liz B:I'm going to move there.
00:28:11.820 --> 00:28:13.680
Liz B:So I rented out my flat.
00:28:14.200 --> 00:28:17.400
Liz B:It transpired to a group of hookers, which I didn't know.
00:28:18.680 --> 00:28:22.980
Liz B:I didn't know until I was recalled by the church commission who owned the flat.
00:28:23.600 --> 00:28:28.320
Liz B:That paid the rent on the flat and gave me a very small income.
00:28:28.720 --> 00:28:37.920
Liz B:So when I was in Lindos in Greece, which was sort of a quite a hippie little village because there were no cars around.
00:28:37.940 --> 00:28:41.580
Liz B:It was just donkeys were the main form of transport.
00:28:42.320 --> 00:28:45.320
Liz B:But people like the Pink Floyd were there.
00:28:45.440 --> 00:28:47.560
Liz B:Michael Gambon used to come on holiday.
00:28:47.580 --> 00:28:50.900
Liz B:Quite a few of the big designers would come there.
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Beyondhood - NicoleFor those of you who don't know, in the 1970s, Lindos, which is a village in rural Greece, was a hippie town where Pink Floyd, which is a rock band, member David Gilmour and Rick Wright, and his wife Julia Wright, had houses and spent a lot of time there at the time of their first international album success.
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Liz B:It was a sort of, I suppose it was the Trans-Saint-Tropez of Greece.
00:29:18.700 --> 00:29:25.700
Liz B:It wasn't expensive and it was completely out of the way, which I didn't know when I decided I was going to go and live there.
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Beyondhood - NicoleYou moved there, you have a little income from the rental, but then what do you do there?
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Liz B:Yes, I became a domestic hygienist, which is another way for saying I was a cleaning lady.
00:29:37.520 --> 00:29:40.040
Liz B:I would clean for the tourists or wash the...
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Liz B:There was one man who made me wash his suits, but I also worked for an artist called Polly Hope whose work is quite internationally known.
00:29:48.640 --> 00:29:50.660
Beyondhood - NicoleI did some research on Polly Hope.
00:29:51.120 --> 00:29:54.740
Beyondhood - NicolePolly was a British artist, designer and author.
00:29:55.200 --> 00:30:03.980
Beyondhood - NicoleShe created artworks in a variety of mediums, including painting, portrait, sculpture, textile and ceramics.
00:30:04.320 --> 00:30:11.680
Beyondhood - NicoleYou can find more of her artworks in the permanent collection of the Victoria and Albert Museum in London.
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Liz B:With so things like sequins on her wall hangings, she made these beautiful pictures out of quilted wall hangings.
00:30:20.560 --> 00:30:22.320
Liz B:And I was one of her workers.
00:30:22.680 --> 00:30:26.840
Liz B:And she let me live in her studio during the winter when she left.
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Beyondhood - NicoleSo how long do you live in this island, Greece?
00:30:30.440 --> 00:30:32.000
Liz B:On and off for two years.
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Beyondhood - NicoleAnd then what made you move back?
00:30:35.400 --> 00:30:39.380
Liz B:One, I had to retrieve my flat from the hookers.
00:30:40.020 --> 00:30:42.160
Liz B:And two, it was time for Katie to go to school.
00:30:43.180 --> 00:30:49.400
Liz B:So I had to reorganize where I was living, and put Katie into a primary school.
00:30:49.480 --> 00:30:52.220
Liz B:Because by then she was four, nearly five.
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Beyondhood - NicoleGot you.
00:30:53.360 --> 00:31:00.120
Beyondhood - NicoleSo when you moved back, did you move back to PR agency, or did you do something else then when you come back to England?
00:31:00.420 --> 00:31:05.080
Liz B:First came back, I worked for a doctor called Dr.
00:31:05.100 --> 00:31:09.620
Liz B:John Goldman, who was a professor of hematology.
00:31:10.740 --> 00:31:25.280
Liz B:And he was the one who brought host versus graft disease, or graft versus host disease, which is not a cure for leukemia, but it's a blood transfer for leukemia that's still used today.
00:31:25.300 --> 00:31:29.520
Liz B:And he was a very, he was exactly ten years older than me to the day.
00:31:29.640 --> 00:31:33.140
Liz B:We were both born on the same day, but ten years apart.
00:31:33.980 --> 00:31:35.820
Liz B:And so he became a lover.
00:31:36.200 --> 00:31:38.360
Liz B:I had a very close relationship with him.
00:31:38.540 --> 00:31:42.440
Liz B:And then I was offered a job back in PR.
00:31:42.460 --> 00:31:45.320
Liz B:So I joined a PR agency again.
00:31:45.720 --> 00:31:46.740
Liz B:Perrier, yes.
00:31:46.740 --> 00:31:49.920
Liz B:Perrier Water was one of our clients.
00:31:50.100 --> 00:31:51.520
Liz B:I had an affair with the chairman.
00:31:54.140 --> 00:31:57.980
Liz B:And we started, he actually died diving.
00:31:58.340 --> 00:32:04.320
Liz B:We started the Perrier Pick of the Fringe, which was the first one ever.
00:32:05.060 --> 00:32:16.020
Liz B:And I was up in Scotland for three weeks during the Fringe, just going to see all of the productions with Alistair Moffat, who was the Fringe organizer.
00:32:16.400 --> 00:32:18.640
Liz B:The Cambridge Footlights won that year.
00:32:18.960 --> 00:32:24.420
Liz B:And that was Emma Thompson, Stephen Fry, Hugh Laurie.
00:32:24.620 --> 00:32:30.480
Liz B:Very, very entitled, established young people who put on a fantastic production.
00:32:30.900 --> 00:32:37.920
Liz B:And their prize was that their production would be brought down to London and put on at the Donmar Theatre.
00:32:38.920 --> 00:32:43.060
Liz B:So that was really the beginning of their careers in the theatre.
00:32:43.400 --> 00:32:51.480
Beyondhood - NicoleIn 1981, let's work for the PLL, Behind the PLL, The Sparkling Water, Pick of the Fringe.
00:32:51.660 --> 00:32:58.340
Beyondhood - NicoleThe original award was created by PLL in 1981 as a way of supporting young talents.
00:32:58.720 --> 00:33:04.260
Beyondhood - NicoleBefore this, there had to be no award recognition for comedy shows on the fringe.
00:33:04.520 --> 00:33:09.180
Beyondhood - NicoleHow did you come up with this Pick of the Fringe as a PLL thing?
00:33:09.460 --> 00:33:12.960
Liz B:It was the agency and myself that I worked with.
00:33:13.720 --> 00:33:26.980
Liz B:We had to, when we were pitching for the Perrier business, we had to come up with a whole lot of ideas to associate the water with upmarket or innovative or sparkling events.
00:33:28.640 --> 00:33:30.340
Liz B:Because it was a sparkling water.
00:33:30.520 --> 00:33:33.140
Beyondhood - NicoleAnd it's a sparkling event that triggered this.
00:33:34.280 --> 00:33:34.820
Beyondhood - NicoleI see.
00:33:34.940 --> 00:33:36.380
Beyondhood - NicoleIt still exists nowadays.
00:33:36.440 --> 00:33:37.240
Liz B:Pick of the Fringe.
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Beyondhood - NicoleYeah, exactly.
00:33:38.200 --> 00:33:40.180
Liz B:Because Perrier no longer sponsor it.
00:33:40.380 --> 00:33:44.980
Beyondhood - NicoleFrom then, I know that you moved on to do more marketing communication.
00:33:45.580 --> 00:33:46.960
Beyondhood - NicoleAnd what did you do then?
00:33:47.720 --> 00:33:50.800
Liz B:I joined Levi Strauss in London.
00:33:51.140 --> 00:33:57.900
Beyondhood - NicoleLevi Strauss is an American clothing company that is known worldwide for its Levi's brand of denim jeans.
00:33:58.420 --> 00:34:02.740
Liz B:It was quite a small group of people in Wembley.
00:34:03.240 --> 00:34:04.640
Liz B:And it was great fun.
00:34:04.660 --> 00:34:10.220
Liz B:I worked as the marketing communications manager for Northern Europe.
00:34:10.240 --> 00:34:12.260
Liz B:Sounds grander than it actually was.
00:34:13.280 --> 00:34:16.020
Liz B:But I was in charge of all of the sponsorship.
00:34:16.080 --> 00:34:19.260
Liz B:And we did the first ever music sponsorships.
00:34:20.020 --> 00:34:26.440
Liz B:And that was Elvis Costello, David Bowie, Roxy Music, Ultravox.
00:34:26.960 --> 00:34:28.640
Liz B:Those happened when I was there.
00:34:28.660 --> 00:34:30.220
Liz B:And then they went on to do...
00:34:30.220 --> 00:34:33.240
Liz B:I think Sting was the next one.
00:34:33.740 --> 00:34:35.080
Liz B:And I wasn't there by then.
00:34:35.300 --> 00:34:36.340
Liz B:No, that was great fun.
00:34:36.360 --> 00:34:38.540
Liz B:I went on tour with David Bowie.
00:34:38.560 --> 00:34:40.420
Liz B:I went on tour with Roxy Music.
00:34:40.560 --> 00:34:41.680
Liz B:Had an amazing time.
00:34:41.740 --> 00:34:43.220
Beyondhood - NicoleWhat was David Bowie like?
00:34:43.400 --> 00:34:45.100
Liz B:I didn't really get to know him.
00:34:46.360 --> 00:34:50.220
Liz B:I think he probably said hello to me or passed me by a few times.
00:34:50.520 --> 00:34:51.720
Liz B:He was very aloof.
00:34:52.100 --> 00:34:53.520
Liz B:He was very distant.
00:34:53.880 --> 00:34:57.460
Liz B:I think he felt that sponsorship was beneath him.
00:34:57.660 --> 00:34:59.000
Liz B:But happy to take the money.
00:34:59.820 --> 00:35:01.960
Beyondhood - NicoleWas sponsorship a big thing back then?
00:35:01.980 --> 00:35:06.220
Beyondhood - NicoleLike sponsor big event in order to get your names out there?
00:35:06.340 --> 00:35:10.880
Liz B:No, this was in 1980, I think, or 81, maybe 82.
00:35:12.500 --> 00:35:16.480
Liz B:No, we really were the first people to sponsor music.
00:35:16.820 --> 00:35:24.540
Liz B:But it was because of the Jeans Association, so young, hip music, the whole thing gelled.
00:35:25.120 --> 00:35:29.240
Beyondhood - NicoleOh, so because you know Levi, Jeans Young, so it's like sponsor music.
00:35:29.960 --> 00:35:33.540
Beyondhood - NicoleDid you stay in Levi's for a while?
00:35:33.560 --> 00:35:35.960
Beyondhood - NicoleOr I know that you moved to SF for a little bit.
00:35:35.980 --> 00:35:37.720
Beyondhood - NicoleHow was Levi's in SF?
00:35:39.660 --> 00:35:44.020
Liz B:I hated SF because it was a very divisive community there.
00:35:44.360 --> 00:35:46.460
Liz B:There was a huge gay community.
00:35:46.480 --> 00:35:48.780
Liz B:It was the start of AIDS.
00:35:48.800 --> 00:35:50.200
Liz B:There was a huge gay community.
00:35:50.220 --> 00:35:57.880
Liz B:There was a big community of original San Franciscans, so old family, old money.
00:35:58.380 --> 00:36:02.760
Liz B:And they really didn't mix with the newcomers who came in.
00:36:02.780 --> 00:36:06.520
Liz B:It was a very divisive community, I felt.
00:36:06.780 --> 00:36:10.940
Liz B:Beautiful place, but not a very nice place to live.
00:36:11.400 --> 00:36:16.020
Liz B:My daughter didn't come to America with me, which is another reason why I returned.
00:36:16.040 --> 00:36:26.120
Liz B:She was at boarding school, and she didn't want to leave England and join me, but she did come over in the holidays, which is another reason why I was unhappy in San Francisco.
00:36:26.140 --> 00:36:29.520
Beyondhood - NicoleAnd you came back to London after a year.
00:36:29.640 --> 00:36:30.440
Beyondhood - NicoleAnd what did you do?
00:36:31.260 --> 00:36:32.960
Liz B:Then I started on my own.
00:36:32.980 --> 00:36:38.020
Liz B:I started a consultancy, and I did some work for Levi's.
00:36:38.400 --> 00:36:44.620
Liz B:I had Thresher wine merchants who had something like 200 wine merchants over in England.
00:36:44.640 --> 00:36:50.200
Liz B:So I did their PR, quite a few clients, and I had a couple of girls who worked with me.
00:36:51.100 --> 00:36:52.680
Liz B:But I was running that from my home.
00:36:52.700 --> 00:37:02.620
Liz B:At the end of the 1990s, one of the girls who was working for me, Julia, who was a fantastic girl, said to me, you've got to start a proper company.
00:37:02.640 --> 00:37:06.020
Liz B:You can't just be Liz B:olton Consultancy.
00:37:06.040 --> 00:37:17.820
Liz B:So I started RedHop PR, and we took offices in Bell Street, just off the Edgeway Road, which I shared with another friend who ran an advertising marketing company.
00:37:18.040 --> 00:37:22.700
Liz B:Yeah, I think we had six, eight, ten clients, and there were five of us working.
00:37:23.220 --> 00:37:26.780
Liz B:And in between that, I had another child.
00:37:27.460 --> 00:37:27.860
Beyondhood - NicoleYes.
00:37:27.880 --> 00:37:28.700
Liz B:Which I've forgotten about.
00:37:29.100 --> 00:37:31.880
Beyondhood - NicoleWe'll come to that in a little bit.
00:37:31.900 --> 00:37:37.240
Beyondhood - NicoleBut before, in 1992, why did you start your own company?
00:37:37.260 --> 00:37:39.240
Beyondhood - NicoleAnd how did you find it working for yourself?
00:37:39.260 --> 00:37:45.660
Beyondhood - NicoleBecause as a woman, you were taking care of a child, and then you were working, and then you started a company.
00:37:45.720 --> 00:37:50.780
Beyondhood - NicoleEven now, we're getting into an era that more and more women starting their own company.
00:37:50.780 --> 00:37:53.740
Beyondhood - NicoleBut in the 90s, it's still less than men.
00:37:53.760 --> 00:37:55.520
Beyondhood - NicoleSo what motivated you to start?
00:37:55.540 --> 00:37:58.360
Beyondhood - NicoleAnd how did you find working for yourself like?
00:37:59.180 --> 00:38:02.940
Liz B:Her being at boarding school enabled me to have the time to work.
00:38:03.180 --> 00:38:10.480
Liz B:I mean, although it was financially crippling, I had to work very hard in order to pay for the boarding school in order to work.
00:38:10.820 --> 00:38:12.460
Liz B:So it was sort of catch 22.
00:38:12.480 --> 00:38:17.640
Liz B:It never occurred to me not to be working with a child.
00:38:17.660 --> 00:38:20.660
Liz B:I didn't have the option because I didn't...
00:38:21.100 --> 00:38:25.580
Liz B:I wasn't financially supported by her father at all.
00:38:25.780 --> 00:38:33.980
Liz B:I paid for all of her schooling and her education, although he did contribute for a number of years towards her education, I have to say that.
00:38:34.060 --> 00:38:36.620
Liz B:Didn't pay for it all, but he did contribute towards it.
00:38:36.720 --> 00:38:42.480
Liz B:And my son was born in 189, but it just meant that I had to continue working.
00:38:42.660 --> 00:38:45.920
Liz B:And it was actually not a matter of choice.
00:38:46.080 --> 00:38:48.000
Liz B:It was a matter of necessity.
00:38:48.260 --> 00:38:52.600
Liz B:To start my own company was no different than being a consultant.
00:38:53.060 --> 00:39:00.160
Liz B:It just meant I had headed paper in offices, as opposed to producing your own headed paper on a computer.
00:39:00.420 --> 00:39:05.400
Beyondhood - NicoleDo you enjoy working for yourself, or how does it compare with working for a corporate?
00:39:05.700 --> 00:39:12.700
Liz B:I much prefer being my own boss, but running a company is, and I think Donald mentioned this as well.
00:39:13.280 --> 00:39:16.860
Beyondhood - NicoleLiz listened to episode one from Donald.
00:39:17.040 --> 00:39:22.000
Beyondhood - NicoleIf you haven't listened, go back to our episode one to listen Donald's story.
00:39:22.340 --> 00:39:25.820
Liz B:You don't actually do what you're particularly good at, which is PR.
00:39:26.100 --> 00:39:36.960
Liz B:You end up dealing with staff and organizing the office and making sure the bills are paid and dealing with your clients rather than dealing with the press.
00:39:36.980 --> 00:39:39.460
Liz B:So no, it was very stressful and you never stop.
00:39:39.940 --> 00:39:42.360
Liz B:You are on call 24 hours.
00:39:42.880 --> 00:39:48.720
Liz B:And so even when you're in bed, you're thinking about, oh, I did that wrong, or tomorrow I've got to do such and such.
00:39:48.740 --> 00:39:50.520
Liz B:You never stop thinking about it.
00:39:50.760 --> 00:39:53.660
Beyondhood - NicoleKind of the beauty, but also the downside of it.
00:39:53.680 --> 00:39:58.700
Beyondhood - NicoleYou own everything, but you also are responsible for most of the things in the company.
00:39:58.800 --> 00:40:01.080
Liz B:Yeah, including the people you employ.
00:40:01.740 --> 00:40:04.300
Liz B:Because if you go down, they go down.
00:40:04.640 --> 00:40:07.100
Liz B:So you have a responsibility to them as well.
00:40:07.480 --> 00:40:07.880
Beyondhood - NicoleYes.
00:40:07.960 --> 00:40:15.440
Beyondhood - NicoleWhen you were working for your own company, who was the most memorable client that you had or incident at work that happened?
00:40:15.440 --> 00:40:18.020
Liz B:There was something else we did at Levi's.
00:40:18.060 --> 00:40:19.460
Liz B:We sponsored St.
00:40:19.480 --> 00:40:21.900
Liz B:Martin's School of Art, the fashion department.
00:40:21.900 --> 00:40:24.240
Liz B:It was the first sponsorship that St.
00:40:24.260 --> 00:40:26.040
Liz B:Martin's ever did as well.
00:40:26.180 --> 00:40:28.560
Liz B:I worked with the Royal College quite a lot.
00:40:28.740 --> 00:40:31.620
Liz B:Did a lot of sponsorships with them, which was great fun.
00:40:31.780 --> 00:40:40.120
Liz B:For a luggage company, we got the students there to design the luggage which went in window displays in Selfridges.
00:40:40.140 --> 00:40:46.300
Liz B:I did Mimco, which is an Australian brand of handbags and luggage as well, and that was quite well known.
00:40:46.620 --> 00:40:53.560
Liz B:We mostly specialized in accessories, fashion accessories, rather than in fashion brands as such.
00:40:54.360 --> 00:40:59.360
Liz B:We did From Somewhere, which was the first recycling of clothes.
00:40:59.380 --> 00:41:10.200
Liz B:A lovely Italian lady who worked with Colin Firth's wife in the sort of green economy, and she recycled cashmere.
00:41:10.400 --> 00:41:14.660
Liz B:So she would cut up cashmere sweaters and sew them up together again.
00:41:15.160 --> 00:41:20.180
Liz B:It was called From Somewhere, and she got very well known during London Fashion Week.
00:41:20.180 --> 00:41:21.560
Beyondhood - NicoleHow do you work with her?
00:41:21.580 --> 00:41:25.580
Beyondhood - NicoleSo you help her to peel out the recycled cashmere?
00:41:25.680 --> 00:41:29.580
Liz B:Yes, I mean, Artwork, which is a knitwear company, was one of our clients.
00:41:29.600 --> 00:41:33.960
Liz B:And the sort of thing we would do is, I'll give you an example with Artwork.
00:41:34.500 --> 00:41:41.400
Liz B:Artwork was run by a husband and wife team, and the wife was the designer and the husband ran the company.
00:41:41.940 --> 00:41:51.200
Liz B:So in order to get them publicity, they did beautiful cotton knitted knitwear that was known as a designer brand.
00:41:51.840 --> 00:41:56.780
Liz B:I would get profiles in the magazines and newspapers about them as a couple.
00:41:57.600 --> 00:42:09.700
Liz B:So that was a different way of publicising the company, was to use them as a working couple who ran a company as the face of the company.
00:42:09.720 --> 00:42:11.580
Liz B:So they became quite well known.
00:42:11.580 --> 00:42:22.760
Liz B:And then the fashion editors would call in the knitwear for fashion shoots and we would take samples over to Vogue and show them the newest collections.
00:42:22.780 --> 00:42:31.060
Liz B:So we would get the products, it's more product publicity than pure PR, but we would get the people in the publicity as well, the people behind the companies.
00:42:31.260 --> 00:42:33.020
Beyondhood - NicoleYou sound very professional right there.
00:42:34.080 --> 00:42:37.180
Beyondhood - NicoleTalk about that, which is good because there's a lot of your expertise.
00:42:37.500 --> 00:42:44.540
Beyondhood - NicoleI know you then ended your PR career when you retired, when you were 68.
00:42:45.180 --> 00:42:51.720
Beyondhood - NicoleAnd now we want to talk about your career, how you work up and created the famous award.
00:42:52.240 --> 00:42:56.680
Beyondhood - NicoleAnd I want to dive into another important aspect of your life, relationship.
00:42:57.100 --> 00:42:59.040
Beyondhood - NicoleI want to go back to your sons.
00:42:59.060 --> 00:43:01.840
Beyondhood - NicoleSo you had your sons when you were 40.
00:43:01.840 --> 00:43:04.260
Liz B:That was the result of a one-night stand.
00:43:04.700 --> 00:43:09.200
Liz B:I was 40 and I thought I'll never be pregnant again.
00:43:09.220 --> 00:43:10.460
Liz B:Yep, go ahead.
00:43:10.500 --> 00:43:13.460
Liz B:I didn't know it was a son at that stage.
00:43:15.280 --> 00:43:19.260
Beyondhood - NicoleHow would you describe your son or any story you would like to share?
00:43:20.140 --> 00:43:22.020
Liz B:My son is a delightful young man.
00:43:22.040 --> 00:43:23.780
Liz B:He's 35 now.
00:43:24.120 --> 00:43:28.480
Liz B:My daughter is like his younger mother because they're 16 years apart.
00:43:29.440 --> 00:43:36.600
Liz B:He went to French school when he was two years old, where he suddenly was immersed in the French language, poor thing.
00:43:36.620 --> 00:43:38.100
Liz B:He didn't know what had happened to him.
00:43:38.520 --> 00:43:46.780
Liz B:By the time he was nine, he spoke French absolutely fluently without an accent, but he hated it.
00:43:47.220 --> 00:43:48.320
Liz B:Absolutely hated it.
00:43:48.780 --> 00:43:54.980
Liz B:And I sent him to the same boarding school that my daughter had gone to as a prep school, which was a beautiful prep school.
00:43:55.100 --> 00:43:58.780
Liz B:And then he went on to Cranbrook in Kent, which is a grammar school.
00:43:58.800 --> 00:44:02.900
Liz B:It's one of the only remaining boarding grammar schools in England.
00:44:03.100 --> 00:44:13.200
Liz B:And he didn't enjoy that at all, but he sent himself to, when he left school after A levels, he sent himself to Carpentry School in North London.
00:44:13.220 --> 00:44:20.640
Liz B:And he found out all about the grants he could get and the builder's merchants paid for him to go.
00:44:20.660 --> 00:44:26.880
Liz B:And he did an HND in Carpentry and became a very good fine woodworker.
00:44:27.340 --> 00:44:33.900
Liz B:And he now works in property development for one of the biggest property companies on commercial buildings in London.
00:44:33.980 --> 00:44:35.100
Liz B:So I'm very proud of him.
00:44:35.120 --> 00:44:36.800
Liz B:He has a great sense of humor.
00:44:36.900 --> 00:44:42.500
Liz B:He's very loving and very funny, and I enjoy his company.
00:44:42.940 --> 00:44:45.600
Beyondhood - NicoleHow would you describe your daughter?
00:44:45.900 --> 00:44:52.320
Liz B:My daughter isn't hugely successful, so I'm incredibly proud of her because she was dyslexic as a child.
00:44:52.760 --> 00:45:01.940
Liz B:Because of the upbringing in Greece as well, she started behind other children here who had maybe had a year of nursery school or two years of nursery school before.
00:45:02.480 --> 00:45:05.600
Liz B:And she's now at the top of her profession in film.
00:45:06.060 --> 00:45:16.160
Liz B:She was an enchanting child, very delicate, very slim, very tiny, and very amusing, always amusing, like my son who has a great sense of humor.
00:45:16.720 --> 00:45:28.740
Liz B:And I just remember when she was very young and I was potty training her, and she was sitting on the loo in her nightie, she said, God up my nightie, rather than God almighty.
00:45:31.680 --> 00:45:33.320
Liz B:I keep reminding her about that.
00:45:33.340 --> 00:45:35.620
Liz B:She's a charming little girl.
00:45:35.720 --> 00:45:44.260
Beyondhood - NicoleWe touched base on your career, your relationship with your children, and now we're moving on to understanding more about your adulthood.
00:45:44.740 --> 00:45:50.800
Beyondhood - NicoleI understand that in 2005, it was a very roller coaster year for you.
00:45:51.280 --> 00:45:53.600
Beyondhood - NicoleWhat happened and how did you handle that year?
00:45:53.880 --> 00:45:58.260
Liz B:Well, in 2004, we were in South Africa at Christmas.
00:45:58.700 --> 00:46:00.920
Liz B:It was during the tsunami.
00:46:00.940 --> 00:46:10.840
Liz B:On the day of the tsunami, I found some lumps in my breast and diagnosed in South Africa almost immediately as breast cancer, which was quite shocking.
00:46:10.860 --> 00:46:16.560
Liz B:I had three lumps and we were attacked in South Africa as well by knife.
00:46:17.440 --> 00:46:25.980
Liz B:And my son-in-law was chased by one of the robbers with the knife, and they tried to take the baby, who was bae, in the pram.
00:46:26.380 --> 00:46:28.120
Liz B:They caught the robbers on the same day.
00:46:28.140 --> 00:46:31.460
Liz B:They were just two young boys, but it was very frightening.
00:46:31.720 --> 00:46:40.020
Liz B:And I'm not sure whether it's as a result of that or not, but my son-in-law was diagnosed with cancer that year in 2005.
00:46:40.280 --> 00:46:49.480
Liz B:My lover, who was a man who was married, but he was older than me, and I'd known him since my twenties, but I'd fallen in love with him the previous year.
00:46:50.120 --> 00:46:52.480
Liz B:He had a massive stroke and he died.
00:46:52.560 --> 00:46:58.380
Liz B:My son-in-law died and my mother died, and it was all within a twelve-month period.
00:46:58.480 --> 00:47:02.660
Liz B:So yes, it was one tragedy after another just hitting us.
00:47:02.940 --> 00:47:06.580
Beyondhood - NicoleHow did you deal with it that year, with so many close ones?
00:47:07.040 --> 00:47:15.140
Liz B:Yes, with difficulty, because I was still working, I was still running my own business, I still had my son to care for, because he was a teenager.
00:47:15.440 --> 00:47:17.660
Liz B:But you get through life.
00:47:17.680 --> 00:47:18.840
Liz B:If you have to, you do.
00:47:18.900 --> 00:47:19.900
Liz B:You just survive it.
00:47:20.060 --> 00:47:22.420
Beyondhood - NicoleAnd how did the breast cancer go with you?
00:47:22.540 --> 00:47:23.240
Liz B:That was fine.
00:47:23.260 --> 00:47:28.460
Liz B:I had a couple of operations, I had radiotherapy, I refused to have chemotherapy.
00:47:28.780 --> 00:47:35.080
Liz B:Touchwood, it's been almost 20 years now, 19 years, and I'm all clear.
00:47:35.220 --> 00:47:36.580
Beyondhood - NicoleOh good, that's good.
00:47:36.840 --> 00:47:39.100
Beyondhood - NicoleWhen did you first have a hard moment?
00:47:39.280 --> 00:47:43.520
Beyondhood - NicoleOh, I'm into my elderhood, I'm no longer a adult.
00:47:44.240 --> 00:47:45.960
Liz B:Definitely at my 60th birthday.
00:47:46.380 --> 00:47:48.240
Liz B:I thought 60, you know, 50.
00:47:48.500 --> 00:47:52.960
Liz B:When you look back at your 50s, when you're 60, you think that's a young woman.
00:47:53.400 --> 00:47:57.300
Liz B:When you're in 50s, you think you're middle-aged, you're, you know, getting on to being old.
00:47:57.320 --> 00:48:04.600
Liz B:But when you're in your 60s, you realize that 50 was young, and 60 is definitely, you can no longer say you're middle-aged.
00:48:05.300 --> 00:48:07.960
Liz B:You are definitely the beginning of an old person.
00:48:08.540 --> 00:48:10.280
Liz B:So yes, at my 60th birthday.
00:48:11.300 --> 00:48:16.740
Beyondhood - NicoleAfter you retired from PR, what did you start doing and what kept you moving?
00:48:16.760 --> 00:48:25.960
Liz B:I'm not 100% sure of the sequence of events, but I took a course of teaching yoga, which I did over three months.
00:48:25.960 --> 00:48:31.120
Liz B:Every weekend for three months, we took lessons and practice.
00:48:31.140 --> 00:48:34.120
Liz B:So I became a yoga teacher in 2014.
00:48:34.460 --> 00:48:36.720
Liz B:So I was still doing PR then.
00:48:36.820 --> 00:48:48.180
Liz B:And in 2016, I signed up for a degree course at university in creative writing, which I did in the evenings over four years.
00:48:48.360 --> 00:48:52.960
Liz B:So I graduated in 2020 with a first class degree.
00:48:53.240 --> 00:48:55.340
Liz B:I took up dog walking as well.
00:48:55.380 --> 00:49:00.820
Liz B:And I have been an Airbnb host since 2014.
00:49:00.820 --> 00:49:03.120
Liz B:I've got two studios that I rent out.
00:49:03.140 --> 00:49:05.660
Liz B:I've always had people staying in the studios.
00:49:05.680 --> 00:49:07.740
Liz B:So yes, I've got three jobs, really.
00:49:08.100 --> 00:49:09.820
Beyondhood - NicoleOh, so you sound more busy than I am.
00:49:10.680 --> 00:49:13.220
Beyondhood - NicoleYou have been keeping yourself active.
00:49:13.600 --> 00:49:17.420
Beyondhood - NicoleAnd how do you keep yourself in good spirit and good health now?
00:49:17.520 --> 00:49:18.520
Liz B:I love gardening.
00:49:18.740 --> 00:49:22.120
Liz B:And I will spend as much time outside as I possibly can.
00:49:22.140 --> 00:49:28.100
Liz B:I bike to the swimming pool nearly every day, which is a local swimming pool.
00:49:28.160 --> 00:49:31.320
Liz B:And I'll swim very fast for 20 minutes or so.
00:49:31.340 --> 00:49:35.440
Liz B:I walk the dogs maybe up to two hours a day.
00:49:35.660 --> 00:49:38.680
Liz B:Maybe not at the weekends, but during the working week.
00:49:38.940 --> 00:49:44.260
Liz B:I practice yoga, I teach twice a week, and I take one lesson of yoga a week.
00:49:44.280 --> 00:49:47.020
Liz B:I sometimes do Pilates, which I know you love.
00:49:47.420 --> 00:49:54.960
Liz B:I'm not very good at Pilates, and I had it injured my shoulder, so I had to stop on the equipment because of my arms.
00:49:54.980 --> 00:49:58.980
Liz B:Yeah, and swimming, walking, gardening, biking.
00:49:59.040 --> 00:50:01.820
Liz B:Been on quite a few treks, major treks.
00:50:01.840 --> 00:50:04.520
Liz B:One in China, one in Vietnam.
00:50:04.640 --> 00:50:05.740
Liz B:I did Machu Picchu.
00:50:07.480 --> 00:50:08.860
Liz B:Traveling, I love traveling.
00:50:09.100 --> 00:50:14.700
Beyondhood - NicoleHow have your relationships evolved in your life now, that you are coming into your elderhood?
00:50:14.880 --> 00:50:19.460
Liz B:I think I'm much more, well, I've always been independent.
00:50:20.140 --> 00:50:31.860
Liz B:My relationships are really only with my family and friends, obviously, but my friends, I've become far more selective about friendships I don't want to waste my time on.
00:50:31.940 --> 00:50:36.380
Liz B:People who bore me, or you don't have the same interests as me.
00:50:36.440 --> 00:50:44.100
Liz B:So I spend less time with people who are not in the family, and more time with very small circle of friends.
00:50:45.840 --> 00:50:54.940
Beyondhood - NicoleAs we come on to the end part of the recording, I always like to say, Beyondhood is where we go beyond elderhood.
00:50:55.140 --> 00:50:59.240
Beyondhood - NicoleSo I want to go deeper with you by looking beyond your elderhood.
00:51:00.100 --> 00:51:05.300
Beyondhood - NicoleWhat has been your biggest success in life looking back, and what are you most proud of?
00:51:05.360 --> 00:51:18.140
Liz B:Being independent and self-sufficient, that I have not relied on anybody else for financial support or support, that I've managed to do it on my own.
00:51:18.600 --> 00:51:28.320
Liz B:And that might well be as a result of my childhood, where we were made to be independent, because having our parents abroad.
00:51:28.340 --> 00:51:32.280
Liz B:Yes, I definitely feel that I deserve acknowledgement for that.
00:51:32.560 --> 00:51:32.940
Beyondhood - NicoleYes.
00:51:33.220 --> 00:51:39.420
Beyondhood - NicoleThis is a very good way of describing it, because you have been supporting yourself since you were 17.
00:51:40.040 --> 00:51:41.960
Beyondhood - NicoleAnd that has been a long way to come.
00:51:42.620 --> 00:51:44.940
Beyondhood - NicoleAnd what has been your biggest challenge in life?
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Beyondhood - NicoleYou're looking back.
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Liz B:Bringing up the children on my own.
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Liz B:I think that's a big challenge.
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Liz B:Or just bringing, whether it was on my own or with somebody, which it wasn't, but bringing up children who then become, you become proud of as people and like as people and admire as people, rather than spoiling them.
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Liz B:Or I taught both my children to be very self-sufficient as well.
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Liz B:And neither of them rely on me in any...
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Liz B:In fact, my daughter is very supportive now because she's in a position to be.
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Liz B:I think bringing up the children was the biggest challenge.
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Beyondhood - NicoleIt's not easy to bring up children now.
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Beyondhood - NicoleFavorite stage of life and why is that?
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Liz B:I think in my 50s.
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Liz B:Despite the tragedies in that terrible year, I felt very confident.
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Liz B:I was pretty successful.
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Liz B:I looked quite good.
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Liz B:I was at my best physically.
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Liz B:I think definitely my 50s.
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Beyondhood - NicoleThe coming three question I always ask is that, what do you think of death?
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Beyondhood - NicoleDo you believe in an afterlife?
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Liz B:I try not to think about death.
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Liz B:I don't believe in an afterlife.
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Liz B:And I hope that I'm not reincarnated as anything, because I'll probably come back as a lizard or an ant or something horrible.
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Liz B:I think it just ends.
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Beyondhood - NicoleDo you have any regret in life and what it is?
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Liz B:Yes, I didn't value my self-worth.
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Liz B:I didn't have enough self-respect to say no, maybe to men for a start, to say I'm better than that, or I deserve more respect.
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Liz B:And that's the advice I would give to other people too, is to value your own worth and to have self-respect.
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Liz B:I think I lacked that.
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Beyondhood - NicoleThis is the advice you would give and share with the younger generation.
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Liz B:Yes, definitely.
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Liz B:Value yourself.
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Liz B:Value what you have to give.
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Beyondhood - NicoleFinally, what do you look forward to?
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Beyondhood - NicoleAnd we mentioned about traveling before.
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Beyondhood - NicoleAnd what is next for you?
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Liz B:Greece.
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Liz B:And we're going to a Greek island in August with my daughter and my granddaughter, who's a real beauty.
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Liz B:And a friend of my daughter and my granddaughter's boyfriend.
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Liz B:I'm looking forward to the summer, to the sunshine.
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Liz B:I'm looking forward to being out in the garden, to seeing my good friends, Donald and Claudio, and eating alfresco, swimming outdoors.
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Beyondhood - NicoleIs there any next project that you're looking forward to do now?
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Liz B:Probably going to do a friend's garden.
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Liz B:I've just designed my daughter's garden, and I upkeep that.
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Liz B:Which is why the house is so full of flowers, because she sends me flowers every two weeks as a thank you for doing her garden, rather than paying me.
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Liz B:So I do her garden.
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Liz B:And a friend I had over last night has asked me to do her garden.
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Liz B:So yeah, there's another project.
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Beyondhood - NicoleSo your next project could be new gardening.
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Beyondhood - NicoleYou could have a new gardener.
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Liz B:I did take a gardening course recently online.
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Liz B:And I also learned to play bridge five years ago.
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Liz B:So we had to play bridge with friends once a week.
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Beyondhood - NicoleWell, that's come to an end of our episode.
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Beyondhood - NicoleThank you, Liz.
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Liz B:Thank you, Nicole.
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Liz B:It's been a great pleasure.
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Beyondhood - NicoleThank you.
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